Dad, It's Time for Recess

Had you peeked in my living room window on that super Sunday when the “Big Game” was about to start, you would have seen me blubbering away in my recliner as the Sandy Hook Elementary Chorus sang ‘America The Beautiful’ with Jennifer Hudson.  Twenty-six kids, beautifully representing their school and those we lost in that awful Newtown, CT tragedy last December.    

I am hopeful that our national, state and local authorities will one day find a solution to end these kinds of senseless events. 

I know that hind sight is 20/20, but I wonder if Sandy Hook Elementary had had a Watch D.O.G.S.  program in place, could it have deterred that tragedy?

For those unfamiliar with the Watch D.O.G.S. program, (Dads Of Great Students) it began after the Jonesboro school shooting in 1998. The program is an initiative of the National Center for Fathering that encourages dads to be involved in their kids’ schools, providing a positive male role model for students and to enhance school safety by being an extra set of eyes and ears.

I am thankful my son’s elementary school in Mill Creek has a Watch D.O.G.S. program in place.  For the past several  years, I’ve joined other caring dads by volunteering  at school; welcoming students, greeting parents, playing kick ball at recess and helping in their students classroom… being a dad. 

Dads in the halls may not be the solution to school violence, but being there for that one child, who at that moment, needs an encouraging  pat on the back, someone to practice math facts with or give a  high-five to after making a good kick, may make all the difference later.

Paul Fredricks

PS:  If you want know more about starting a Watch D.O.G.S. program at your child’s school, I’d love to help.

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  1. RitaD_0352 posted on 03/20/2013 09:58 AM
    I'm familiar with the Watch D.O.G.S. program. I think it's a wonderful program and a great opportunity to show love to any child with an absent dad. While we may think a pat on the back, a high five or a shoulder squeeze is a small thing, to that young child starving for positive assurance, it means the world.
    Thank you, Paul, for being that positive assurance, and for getting the word out.
    May God continue to bless your efforts.
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